Heartaches, heartbreaks.

Heartaches, heartbreaks. Have you ever experienced being in a relationship, thinking that it was perfect and everything that you wanted but in a blink of an eye, everything went down the hill? You get the feeling that your world's crashing down or you just want to cry yourself to sleep whenever you lock yourself in your room. But the question is, does he/she feel the same way?

It's either someone or something is always going in between and trying to ruin your perfect relationship (panira or hadlang in Tagalog) or the other half just fell out of love. Different reasons, different reactions.

Stolen glances, hidden feelings, and whispering phrases they can't even hear. You feel like someone's trying to ruin your relationship or something is wrong that eventually, you have to give up even if you two still love each other. This is hard especially if you two see each other every single day. It's like a game of hide and seek because the two ex-lovers are always trying to avoid each other but seems to look for them at the same time.

Bets, players, mixed feelings and falling out of love. Needless to say that in this situation, one of them is happy while the other one's breaking down. One of the biggest reasons are players. "Dude, I bet you a hundred bucks if you could get that girl to say yes in a week!" or other shit like that. If you're like this, let me ask you a question. Do you even think about what that person you're betting on if ever gonna feel? This hurts but I personally think that if one of them falls out of love, the person who's still inlove is gonna feel like sht and hopeless. He/she might not eat, just be a loner or cry.

The thing is, if ever you're in this kinds of situation, all you need is a friend, advice, and faith in yourself.

• Cry it out.
• Stay strong.
• Ask a friend.
• Let it all out.
• And most importantly? MOVE ON.

Just remember that someone out there is always by your side. Someone out there would be the one and fulfill your expectations, standards and give you the relationship you want. So don't just mope around, be happy and continue living your life! Show them that you're not affected, you've moved on and stayed strong.

- Idelyn x

P.S. I know, random post. I just felt like it. :)